Life friends friendship relationships
People are celebrating “super-connector” friends who keep groups together by organising dinners and nights out
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My wife got flustered a few years ago when she realized we were always inviting and others almost never invited us.
Is it that their parents didn’t do that growing up?
Are the friends embarrassed for others to see their home?
Or are people just stuck on their phones?— Kody Duncan (@Kodytduncan) January 21, 2025
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you can’t because everyone now has allergies to 90% of normal food ingredients and follows extremely strict specific diet, impossible to get anyone to join a dinner
— Mad ML scientist (@HououinTyouma) January 19, 2025
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Easy answer to this one: the internet was the beginning of our inability to socialize like before. In-person socializing takes practice and we stopped practicing.
I see a lot of excuses here in the comments but we host a dinner party at least once a month, usually twice in a…
— Branan Edgens (@branan_edgens) January 19, 2025
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The cost of housing has gone up more than wages. Most millennials either don’t have time to cook or don’t have space for a 6-setting dining table & guest bathroom…
— • Gia Lucia • (@itsgialucia) January 19, 2025
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I think it’s because people have no personal space except in their homes. Constantly connected to technology where people can reach you anytime, anywhere. There’s no downtime/privacy except at home. Maybe that’s just me.
— KUrb (@k_urb1) January 20, 2025
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Honestly think that a social invitation feels like an “onerous burden” when people feel really busy in their lives – it’s just one more thing. Personally loved a dinner invite in the past when I had a lot of space, now I don’t often go. If I have time? I’d rather be home.
— Dr. Julie Gurner (@drgurner) January 20, 2025
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I feel so seen.
I always feel like I’m planning things and making things happen.
These past couple of months I’ve consciously chosen to pursue friendships where they reciprocate this in some way. https://t.co/nf5o3WsxJA
— dita (@mscuratinglife) January 20, 2025
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as the resident planner in a few of my friend groups I will say it’s so important to make sure we’re getting invited to things once in a while instead of planning it. or even just having someone else originate an idea otherwise it starts to feel one sided and unappreciated https://t.co/f4fSNWQT7U
— anaïsa (@anaisakalita) January 21, 2025
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I can not overstate how much I love and appreciate my “planner” type friends. I am such an anxious and self isolating person at times, and I just suck at reaching out to plan things. I love being included, and even hosting people, but vampire style xD https://t.co/CcqM5Fc11Z
— Jess (@JustJesscaa) January 20, 2025
Finally, a word from another of these heroes.
I’ve kinda become this person as I’ve gotten older. I be out here planning hangouts 4 months in advance Maintaining adult relationships takes work, especially as people start their own families. https://t.co/IPlD8QG1J3
— ALL UP IN YOUR MIND ✨ (@_13thofmay) January 20, 2025
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