Women have been sharing the most common ‘nice guy’ behaviours – 17 romantic red flags to look out for

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‘Nice guys who constantly have to tell you they are nice guys. Let me be the judge of whether you are a nice guy or not. I think usually people who say I’m a nice guy, you’ve never dated someone like me before because beautiful women only like bad boys. Stop with the victim hood. Nice guys don’t always finish last. They just don’t finish first when it’s a bad fit.’
-Weak_Pineapple8513

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‘I once met a guy that was always so nice he thought he deserved to cheat on his girlfriend. As if he had so many karmapoints he could stand to lose a few and finally treat himself. I immediately thought NICE GUY SYNDROMEEEE!!!’
-ssnowflakegeneration

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‘Pretending to be concerned about women in order to shit on another group.’
-Ileeza

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‘”You’re not like other girls. You’re [smart/ambitious/modest/less shallow/whatever]”

‘Ya, saying you don’t like or respect most women isn’t a good sign.’
-CrowleysWeirdTie

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‘When they say all their exes were crazy.’
-belle8008

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‘Pretending to be your friend just for the opportunity to get in your pants later. Then disappear or get angry when you reject them.

‘Doing favors expecting something non-platonic in return.’
-sheepsclothingiswool

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‘“Nice guys” usually come in these three common categories.

‘The transactional “nice guy”:

‘He does things for you that you never asked for, then treats it like a down payment on your boundaries. If you don’t respond how he wants, he gets mad, guilt-trips, or begs. To him, kindness is currency and you’re in debt. Even if the favors aren’t about sex at first, it usually escalates there. He’s testing you. If he thinks kindness cancels your right to say no to anything, run.

‘The self-pitying “nice guy”:

‘When you hesitate about dating or sex, he doubles down on how “ugly” or “unwanted” he is. This isn’t insecurity. It’s a manipulative play for pity. He wants you to prove you’re not “like everyone else” by rewarding him with sex or reassurance. I call them the “sobbing predators” or Jerry because victimhood is their chosen weapon of sexual coercion.

‘The “red-pilled” paranoid “nice” guy:

‘Unlike the “pathetic nice guy” he’ll place the burden on you by gradually pushing this idea that you should hate yourself and should put him on a pedestal. He’s the self proclaimed “high value male.”

‘It’s common for this category of “nice” guy to have a “must humble female” mentality. He’ll question and interrogate you. He’ll make you feel like you need to constantly prove you’re not “just like all the women that cheated on him.”

‘Being around this kind of guy makes you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells. He has a contagious form of anxiety that he projects onto others. It feels like you have to constantly justify yourself.’
-DestroyTheCircus

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‘The biggest red flag is when ‘niceness’ feels like a mask. If respect only lasts until rejection, that was never kindness, just strategy. Real decent men don’t need to guilt trip, corner, or compete they know ‘no’ means no and kindness isn’t a bargaining chip for intimacy.’
-DaisyGlowZs

Source: Reddit, Image: Screenshot