People loved this woman’s response to a 30 y/o who asked if it was ‘worth it’ to have kids
It all began when a 30-year-old woman called @sohltrain over on TikTok asked if it was ‘worth it’ having kids.
@sohltrain Help a girl out #momsoftiktok #parenting #motherhood #shouldihavekids #familyplanning ♬ original sound – Jen & Eevee
And if she was hoping that TikTok would provide her with some helpful advice – a long shot, you might think – that was exactly what she got, with this absolute humdinger of a response from @farrahhaidar which sent he whole thing wildly viral.
@farrahhaidar #stitch with @Jen & Eevee #momsoftiktok #motherhood #kids #arekidsworthit ♬ original sound – Farrah Haidar
Just in case that’s tricky to watch, here it is again, shared by @ask_aubry over on Twitter.
I absolutely love this reply about having kids or not. pic.twitter.com/JcVv8FKjB7
— AskAubry (@ask_aubry) September 25, 2023
10/10, no notes …
Oh my. This was so remarkably well said it made me tear up a little. Now I need to go find a grandbaby to hug.
— Ted Warring (@TedWarring) September 25, 2023
That was so sincere and straightforward. "Kids don't heal a marriage, they really reveal it"
— Hell1s (@Hell1s) September 25, 2023
Her response is 100% accurate, and something people need to hear.
— Carrie Kitko, MD (she/her) (@ckitko) September 25, 2023
she's right on. I would not recommend parenthood to anyone not ready to make huge sacrifices, make really hard decisions, and put children's interests ahead of your own.
— ReluctantActivist (@ReluctantActvst) September 25, 2023
To conclude …
"It's not about what you get, it's about what you give." https://t.co/PTY1YiiTMJ
— Elle Blue (@KnownasBlue) September 25, 2023
Source Twitter @ask_aubry TikTok @farrahhaidar
