‘What’s a tiny thing a guy does that makes you think ‘Wow, he actually cares’?’ – 21 wholesome antidotes to the monsters of the manosphere

13.

‘When we were dating I told him “I do not like to pump gas. The handle is gross and the men on the other side of the pump freak me out.” I mentioned this to him ONE TIME. ONCE. In passing, it wasn’t even a real conversation. I have pumped gas exactly one time in the past 25 years. Now that’s love, ladies.’
–Ready_Broccoli8512

14.

‘When he make sure I got home safe.’
–DirectStacy

15.

‘Notice changes in my mood and asks about it.’
–Cute-Chocolate5317

16.

‘Doesn’t say ‘it’s just a joke’ when saying something a bit too far that I react to.’
–Thisisstupidly

17.

‘Remembering my various coffee orders at the different coffee places I go to.’
–NerdyBirdyx

18.

‘He always folds my napkins elaborately before we eat. Like everyday. It’s adorable.’
–bitchin_pizzas

19.

‘He made me a trinket box from scratch and wood burned flowers into it. If there’s a fire that’s the thing I’m grabbing.’
–Redvelvet_swissroll

20.

‘Small acts beats grand gestures. Attention shows real care.’
–Katy_Monica_Peach

21.

‘For the men reading this like study material, the list seems to be:

remember details
notice mood
listen properly
bring snacks
make coffee
help without being asked
check she got home safe
remember gift ideas
make small things easier
adjust to her comfort
be consistent

So yeah, mostly: pay attention and follow through.’
–Agreeable-Yak9560

Source r/AskReddit Image Screenshot