‘What’s a personality trait that seems attractive at first but becomes unbearable over time?’ – 23 slowly unfurling red flags

13.

‘When someone is extremely opinionated.’
–PersonalityBig6331

14.

‘Nonchalance.’
–plantbane17

15.

‘Being goofy and childlike seems fun at first, but then you realise that you’re always stuck at that level around them.’
–MiserableSympathy230

16.

‘Always being spontaneous and just flying by the seat of your pants. It can be fun and exciting at first, but eventually there comes a time to plan, have a routine, and be serious.’
–stylethelaughter

17.

‘Emotional availability without balance of listening+boundaries.’
–Zealousideal-Lie7406

18.

‘Overly nice guy – and don’t get me wrong I wanted that but he turned mean within a few years. I’ll take a happy medium.’
–DnBJungleEscape

19.

‘Home bodies, they end up making you feel guilty for wanting to go outside and make memories with them.’
–Rolly-Polly990

20.

‘Obsessive neatfreak. Looks impressive at first, but then it gets exhausting later.’
–MaverisStranger

21.

‘This isn’t exactly a personality trait, but as an autistic person I’ve come to realize men are purposely seeking out autistic women for relationships because they have an idea that we are “cutesy, whimsical (?), and more trusting” (that’s the kindest, most generous way of putting it).

Then the meltdowns over the food being the wrong texture begin…’
–loosesocksup

22.

‘Being jealous and possessive can sound attractive until it gets too much.’
–hjiiaa20

23.

‘Sometimes budget conscious just means cheap.’
–Dismal_Upstairs3949

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