A handy list of 19 not so ‘subtle signs’ that someone is a complete a-hole

11.

‘Talking about how all their friends left them or that they were kicked out of multiple friend groups. It keeps happening for a reason.’
Spirited-Mountain-65

12.

‘They tell small lies. The kind you might pick up on and not mention cause it’s not anything big but when added up they can completely change the context of a situation.’
Interesting_Sparrow

13.

‘Always be aware of gossips and people who are nasty about others behind their backs….you are probably not the only person they are telling. They will probably be gossiping about you to other people.

‘Also, if someone never has anything nice to say about other people then they are probably saying nasty things about you behind your back.’
bighatbenno

14.

‘They tell you things about their other ‘friends’ that they should keep between them, it also means they’re telling your business to someone else.’
Elliezzzzzz

15.

‘They always expect something in return, no matter what.’
eastofsaturn

16.

‘If someone makes fun of someone smiles or laughter. My mom used to tell me how weird my smile was and say it was annoying when I laughed it’s a shitty thing to do.’
Dudebrohoe

17.

‘You feel the need to be careful with how and what you say to them because they’ll twist words to make you sound like the bad guy. Too many “misunderstandings” can make you extremely conscious of yourself and make you walk on eggshells.’
magicrowantree

18.

‘When they apologize during a conflict, they get angry if that doesn’t immediately end the conflict because they never truly felt sorry and their only goal was to escape repercussion. This will become evident when the behavior they had apologized for keeps happening and never improves.’
archaeren

19.

‘Someone is only seeing problems within other people, never themselves.’
steven_matts

To conclude …

‘Honestly, trust your gut. If the person makes you feel uncomfortable, makes you feel unsafe, makes you feel like you can’t trust them, trust that instinct. That is a sign.’
BisonBravey

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