What screams ‘I’m the problem but I’ll never admit it’?’ – 21 qualities that are huge, frantically flapping red flags

12.

‘Someone who blows up your phone with drunken rage texts and insults while you’re sleeping, then blocks you on everything so you can’t respond in the morning. Then tells everyone you’re an asshole.’
–scrappyscotsman

13.

‘Refusing to go to therapy but constantly over sharing childhood and early adulthood trauma to your few friends until it exhausts them.’
–chenzo17

14.

”I have three babymommas, and none of them let me see my kids.”
–Mediocre_End_9709

15.

‘When they half-assedly acknowledge they have a problem but in a way where they’re clearly fishing for validation and reassurance that they don’t actually have to modify their behaviour.’
–Archenic

16.

‘They never apologise for anything. Ever.’
–deefunkt01

17.

”You’re just too sensitive!’. Classic dismissal of other people’s feelings instead of considering why your words or actions hurt people.’
–JasminMika

18.

‘Someone who never seems to like anybody they meet.’
–tudedime

19.

”I’m just brutally honest!’. No, you just enjoy the brutality.’
–KeysmashKhajiit

20.

‘A complete unwillingness to engage in emotionally honest conversations.’
–Nyte77

21.

‘They’re always looking outside of themselves for answers. They never look within themselves to see if they are the source of the problem.’
–bubblegum-rose

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