‘What’s considered attractive but is actually a major turn off?’ – 16 ‘green flags’ that burn bright red in real life
9.
“I’d say aloofness or ‘go with the flow’ types. It sounds nice to me since I tend to overthink, but then you just become the person who handles everything when in a relationship.”
Waffle-Crab
10.
“Dating a rich, successful man. They like to make all the decisions. They don’t like being challenged or questioned. Most of them are difficult/egotistical/demanding (some or all of the above). It’s their world and you only live in it. For an independent, strong-willed woman, this all gets old real quick.”
iAmMedusa_3000
11.
“Nymphomaniacs. People always act like it would be great having someone who wants to have sex all the time, until you actually have to deal with someone wanting to have sex all the time. Exhausting.”
TalkQuick
12.
“Love bombing.
“I dated someone who would write me a literal love letter every morning through text. At first it was amazing, I’d never felt more treasured, but after a few weeks it got exhausting. I was waking up an hour early just to give myself enough time to respond with more than an ‘awwww that’s so sweet! I love you too.’
“Eventually there was nothing left to say, and it petered off to your typical ‘good morning babe!’”
ashoka_akira
13.
“Super gregarious, always telling funny stories, always wanting to go out and do stuff. Shush, I’m tired”
BigToast6
14.
“Facial hair on guys sounds hot until you kiss a cactus.”
No-Stretch-Latex
15.
“Constant confidence sounds attractive until you realise it can come with ignoring feedback or not admitting mistakes, and ‘being busy all the time’ seems impressive until you see how quickly it leads to burnout and no real balance.”
DifferenceOld5038
16.
“’Mysterious’ personalities.”
Immediate-Spirit8530
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Source: AskReddit, via u/AO_KinkyCouple